Author: Jeff Troesch 作者：杰夫Troesch
Article source: http://golf.articles-free.com/ . 文章来源： http://golf.articles-free.com/ 。 Used with author's permission. 用作者的许可。 The game of golf provides trials for every player, independent of the player's gender.在高尔夫比赛提供审判每一个球员，独立的播放器的性别。 However, for some women in our society, there is a special challenge.然而，有些妇女在我们的社会，有一个特殊的挑战。 Women in the Western world have traditionally been raised and socialized to be cooperative, polite, feminine and "nice".妇女在西方世界历来提出和社会的合作，礼貌，女性和“漂亮” 。 There is implicit pressure that some women feel to make sure that they don't stand out too much or present themselves as trying to outdo or "embarrass" another woman.有隐性的压力，一些妇女觉得，以确保他们不站在了太多或把自己说成是试图超越或“难堪”另一个女人。 These messages can sometimes conflict with being competitive on the golf course.这些信息有时可能会冲突的竞争力在球场上。 In stark contrast, men have traditionally been reinforced and given full latitude to be competitive, win at all costs, and take down their "opponent".鲜明的对比，男人历来得到加强，并给予充分的自由竞争力，赢得不惜一切代价，并采取了他们的“对手” 。 In the English language, there is a lot of overlap between adjectives that describe masculinity and those that describe a competitor.在英语，有很多重叠的形容词，说明男性和那些描述一个竞争对手。 Time after time men can go head to head on the golf course, do whatever is necessary to beat their adversary, and then enjoy the 19th hole with their fellow competitor.一次又一次男子可以头对头在球场上，尽一切必要努力打败他们的对手，然后享受第19洞的同胞竞争者。 For many women, it doesn't feel that simple.对于许多妇女，它并不认为简单。 For some there is a perceived or real fear that if they are too competitive in the golf arena, that they may suffer some social consequences.对于一些有知觉或真正担心，如果他们太具竞争力的高尔夫舞台上，他们可能受到一些社会后果。 Some fear being labeled as "too competitive", "too serious", or worse.有些人担心被称为“太竞争力” ， “太严重” ，或者更糟。 Some women feel as though they must choose between "social" golf and "competitive" golf, as there is not as much of an overlap as it feels there is for the men.有些妇女觉得他们必须选择“社会”高尔夫“竞争”高尔夫，因为没有太大的重叠，因为它觉得是男人。 Admittedly, this is an internal conflict that some women do not experience, as they are in arenas where this doesn't feel like an issue.诚然，这是一场内部冲突，一些妇女没有经验，因为他们是在舞台上时，这并不觉得自己是一个问题。 Others are perfectly content to let their golf development and improvement be a priority- without concern for the potential social ramifications.其他的内容完全是让他们的高尔夫发展和完善是一个优先事项，而不关心潜在的社会影响。 Gratefully, society continues to move toward embracing the notion that a woman can be both competitive and feminine.感激，社会不断走向拥抱的概念，一个女人可以是竞争性和女性。 However, for the women for whom this inner conflict exists, it is often helpful to recognize this clash and resolve to be purposeful about coming to peace with it.然而，妇女人本内在存在冲突，往往是有益的认识到这一点的冲突，并决心将针对性的未来和平的。 What is your goal for your game?什么是您的目标为您的游戏？ Is it more socially related?它更具有社会有关？ Is it more competitively related?这是有关更具竞争力？ Are there times when one takes priority over the other?还有时候，一个优先于其他？ Clarifying this objective in advance of the day at the club or course can help keep things in perspective and help goals be met more easily.澄清这一目标提前一天在俱乐部或课程可以帮助保持事物的角度和帮助达到的目标更容易。 At the very least it can help create an internal environment that feels less confused, thus allowing the game to be one that is more enjoyable and pleasurable.至少它可以帮助建立一个内部的环境，感觉不到混乱，从而使游戏成为一种更愉快和愉快的。 Jeff Troesch, MA, LMHC is an internationally recognized expert in the mental side of golf.杰夫Troesch ，硕士， LMHC是一个国际公认的专家，精神方面的乐趣。 As the former Director of Sport Psychology for the David Leadbetter Golf Academies, Jeff has worked with thousands of golfers nationwide and brings a wealth of experience to seasoned golf professionals as well as the recreational golf lover.由于前任所长运动心理学的大卫利百特高尔夫学院，杰夫还与成千上万的选手和全国带来了丰富的经验，以经验丰富的专业高尔夫球场以及休闲运动爱好者。 You may contact Jeff directly through his website, http://www.fitnessforgolf.com.您可以直接联系杰夫通过他的网站， http://www.fitnessforgolf.com 。
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